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Hi Hattynut. Take a deep breathe. The world is not going to end. No need to contemplate suicide. You are young and have questions. If youth was easy then most of the art created today wouldn't exist. It is a learning experience.

In terms of your situation. I am still a little unclear. You have obviously been very emotionally affected. Which is understandable. And to be expected. Please clarify this for me....

"When I was younger, up to about 11, I had homosexual encounters with other boys roughly my age, and several times with one that was a couple years (not a lot) younger. I never did actual anal intercourse, but we did do a very small amount of oral, and pretending to do anal."

And then you said.....

"However, how could I possibly tell her that I had homosexual experiences, and not even when I was that young?"

Well 11 years old is pretty young. Many males are not sexually developed at that age and can't ejaculate. And aren't "dating". Sounds like a case of a childhood living. To each their own. Discovering life. But anyway. Sounds like you are exclusively attracted to women now. Are your only concerns about what you did when you were in grade school?

If that is the case then I wouldn't worry. Whether you tell your partner is your business. Nothing to be ashamed of. My scanner is down now........

But I have a picture of me in 1973 - the kindergarten class photo - and my best friend dared me seconds before the picture was taken to put on some outrageous glasses. Think Elton John back in the 70's. Yeah. It went down unnoticed but the complaints came in when it was published. Little Johnny and Jane's folks bitched about the rabble-rouser ruining their kid's precious memory photo.

One of my favorite photos today.






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