Re: well, you've made an adult decision about an adult problem.

You make me laugh. :) It is a sacrifice, but it's worth it. Now I feel like a wanna be lecherous wife, especially now with such a cute cable guy working outside in my yard, lol. But I will be faithful. I love him too much to hurt him (my husband, not the cable guy). And perhaps I'll get an occasional lustful week/weekend while on vacation. It's happened before. Sex with him was better than with anybody else so that will be a bonus to a good married life.

But yeah, deciding and setting my expectations will help. I mourn the demise of my previously robust sexuality (especially since I still think I am quite cute) but maybe this is my lesson. We all have things to learn in life. There must be a reason that I'm tested in this way. I think it will be ok.

I hope folks don't begrudge my attendence to the Sex Forum, regardless of my current situation. Afterall, sex has always been one of my favorite subjects and I still have enough experience to lend a helpful word. ;-)

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