Re: sex, how to loosen my vagina?

At http://www.ndvh.org
there is reference to every aspect of domestic violence - one form may be more prominent, but all forms are present to some degree or another. If you were raised in an environment of domestic abuse/violence (or, neglect), it's an even better reason to call at leat one of the hotlines that you were provided.

Take a look at the Domestic Violence Survey, or read the page on my blog, Floating The Abyss, that briefly mentions sexua| abuse, and learn more about how far and wide this issue reaches.

best wishes and brightest blessings to you.