Re: Example of Balance Between Husband and Wife

Thanks! I agree my family spews a lot when I don't do what they want or their own way. I refuse lately to take it and just hang up as it is a waste of time and I get toxic from it. I think a family system is good when each indiviual doesn't profit individually but the whole profits. Greed! What they want me to do is good for them (sin) not good for me.

Yes, let God take over. As far as cousenling goes, I don't trust counselors. I know and man and woman counselor who hate each other and sit and yell at each other cutting each other to ribbons and then sleeping around and things worse than that and then they sit and counsel others. Fake lives they live. Don't want to be pulled into their sin.

Good, I am glad I found this. In the Bible I think it says that there will be a time when you will ask for redemption and be lead to the Bible. People have tried in the past but maybe it was a clean person this time that got me there! Not someone who wanted to do it for themselves.