Re: here's the skinny on labia size.
You are right about self confidence, if someone believes they have a certain flaw, then others giving complements won't fix that.
I have looked into the procedure, and found a reasonably priced surgeon. This is always considered cosmetic of course.
THen the other train of thought could be, wait until there is a serious relationship and have the surgery then, so he will get to be with a "new" woman and spice things up.
I really have never needed to spice things up tho, I am pretty spicy myself LOL
Thanks for the input. To me the smaller folds look neater too, they don't go all over the place.
One guy referred to it as a flower before, I could tell he was in admiration but I took it as a non-compliment from somebody who didn't know any better.
I guess men don't really analyze the labia unless it is freakishly large, am I right?