here's the skinny on labia size.
yes, you are correct in your opinion that smaller, firmer labia folds are more feminine. but larger ones are not a dealbreaker, per se. this is the same arguement that woman all over the world have about breast sizes...guys like bigger boobs so i gotta get implants! i get it. i live in the real world. women who feel something about their physical self will want to change it for the better. better in their eyes. i can tell a woman she's smok'in hot all day every day but if she really believes her eye brows are too thin or her butt is too flabby or her tits are too small or her labia lips are too big...she'll smile and go on thinking what she's thinks. you're a woman, you know i'm right!
if you think your lips are too big, then talk with a surgeon that specializes in the removal of excess folds. this procedure is gaining popularity and considered safe, if not routine. as much as "routine surgery" can be labeled "routine". read up on the subject. gain knowledge. my investigations into this subject matter has convinced me that most women are glad they had the procedure to reduce. it's worth looking into, don't you think? yes. i think so.
the more sex you have, the more the labia will be pronounced, so it's time for you to do some research, take two aspirin, and call me in the morning. see the nurse for your next appointment on your way out...