Re: Gonorrhea positive

So, I had sex with a guy I've been sleeping with for about 4 years on

7/22/201

We used a condom but we had oral sex (both ways) without a condom.

We're not in a committed relationship, recently I met someone else and I had unprotected oral sex with that person ONLY ORAL.

the guy I had sex with on 7/22/2010 calls me on 7/26/2010 and tells me that he has Gonorrhea and Chlamydia and I gave it to him.

Of course I don't believe a word of this but since I haven't been tested I went to see a doctor on 7/28/2010 he did a urine test and on the 29th he calls me with my test results for both Gonorrhea and Chlamydia and they both came back negative.

I tell this to the guy and he says there is no way that test is correct and the last person he slept with was a month ago and the only way he could have gotten it was from me according to HIS doctor and the incubation period.

he says my test proves nothing. I already spent 185 bucks for both tests

Now he says he doesn't get his test results back until Monday, so come to find out he wasn't even diagnosed but had severe symptoms and did go to his doctor who has 35 years of experience with this stuff and gave him Antibiotics for either Gonorrhea & Chlamydia.

My doctor tried to give me Antibiotics as well but I refused until he at least knows if I have it and I don't have symptoms and I know that's normal for women.

My urine tests came back negative but this guy keeps saying I have it and I gave it to him and it had to be me since he developed symptoms 12 to 16 hours after we had sex.

I have a more thorough exam with my normal Gyno on the 5th but I still think I didn't give this guy anything and he's not making sense The other guy I slept with is in denial about the whole thing and we aren't speaking anymore. I asked him to get tested.

My instincts tell me he got it from another woman he slept with. He says impossible since his encounter with her was a month ago.

and since I read online there's only 50% chance of me getting it if I sleep with a man who has it, then I consider myself lucky since him and I used a condom. We did have unprotected oral sex, both ways though.

Even if my other test results from my doctor come back negative he says it's still me and that the tests are just wrong. I feel like I'm dealing with a crazy person but another side of me wants to know for sure. If you have thorough knowledge and experience with Gonorrhea and Chlamydia please help.

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