the problem with people today is that we do way too much overcommunicating. too much information. things that don't need to be discussed, are discussed. most things have nothing whatsoever to do with the person in the present, but can lead their mind astray. secrets are absolutely necessary to maintain a successful life in all categories from business to personal. guys are funny about past screws...you never know how one will take it, so my response is to keep it off the script. forget it ever happened. don't give ammunition to people unable to handle the weapon. i give what people need to hear, nothing more nothing less...and life is very good. i've told people things i shouldn't in the past, and it bit me in the ass every time. so, now my poliicy is: i'll tell you what i good and well want to tell you. be your own publicist. promote and market what image you want to set forth. no need to lie...but definately don't be an open book on every little chapter...