Hi Halley888 - I agree with what No Unicorns said about allopathic endocrinologists and getting a saliva test. You might want to read "Adrenal Fatigue" by James Wilson to learn more about AF. His website is http://www.adrenalfatigue.org.
Dr. Lam knows a lot about AF, and he has his own forum on curezone.com. His website is http://www.drlam.com. http://www.drlwilson.com
and http://www.arltma.com
have excellent articles on AF and related topics.
As far as the Paxil, I recommend you read "The Mood Cure" by Julia Ross to learn about healthier alternatives. Jurplesman knows a lot about this, and you might want to check out his old posts. He has a website with some good articles that might help you a lot. I can't remember the link.