I don't either. This is one doctrine that has been in the christian churches that I believe has done more damage than they anyone could know. Will enough people truly study this and start taking a stand to make a change? I hope so, and soon.
" you either have life "zoe" in you or you dont."
Christ is life, and I believe either you are either in Him, or you are not. Is this what you believe?
"there are many ways into "paradise". want me to drag you along?"
This I don't believe. You read the scriptures. It says over and over Christ is the only way to God, and therefore, to paradise. Where does it say anything else?