Re: Seriously, husbands

"I want love, and I don't believe he has a CLUE;"

Are you able to look inside his heart & soul and know his feelings and thoughts? I know of 2 people who can do this, and only two, and they do not include you, unless of course, you are pretending to be god, which may be the real problem here, but even still, one can only pretend to do such a thing.

Does he help pay the bills? Would he put himself in harm's way to protect you if you were physically attacked? There are more ways to love someone than whatever fantasy-love is dramatized in romance-novels, or whatever other ideas of love you may have.


"Doesn't he just think of me as just another possession?"

Wow, can you look at yourself here? Who are we, you, or anyone else to judge what this man thinks of you as? If you want to know what he thinks of you, ask him. You are not God, to read his intentions, nor are we. These thought-patterns are very dangerous and are a serious problem and will be a source of problems as long as they are used. Read up on Patricia Evans, "Controlling People", and look at your own faults and work on yourself. If you think you know what real love is, and he does not, then show it to him by example. Love does not involve fault-finding or playing god. Serve him with love.