men are the brunt of many jokes as they get older regarding sex. newlywed go from many times a day to nightly to weekly and then....
this idea that men need to perform is pretty wild. i think the harem arrangement worked in ancient times because women could comfort one another, which i see no prohibition to in the bible or in nature.
but i dont want to get too far afield or too philosophical or spiritual. the fact is that i have been talking to guys who appear to have severe health problems from an inordinate amount of ejaculating. its a serious deal. if what is good for a man physically is also some form of spiritual prohibition or aspect of it, then so be it. i use the bible as a health book all the time and it works.