I think it may be safer to respond to my own post... to say I appreciate everyone's response to my first post into this forum. All I did was ring in on saying I had two testimonials towards HV when it was stated he had none, that supported a positive, in our case, very positive outcome. Definitely do not want to get in the middle of whatever else is going on.
Decided to respond to a particular post in this thread which I will post separately as this needs to be an upbeat, positive post here. In that I appreciate the subsequent responses and will as Moreless states in his post to me, I will decide about asking a question and seeking advice within the forum.
I admit to being back on my heels tho for I feel like I've been lectured at, quite a bit, and I haven't asked a question yet.