Maybe I will do the guy thing (haha) and not commit to either (so far no one is serious enough to suggest this)
And hopefully the workaholic one will be there in a few years, who knows.
Maybe it is the challenge of getting that one, when he has time to pay a lot of attention to me, I want to back away!!!
I suppose the difficult part would be if/when it becomes physical with the fun and available guy...then I will have to decide how to tell or not tell them about each other.