The best water filtering system

Just giving this a shot! I know that unfortunately, water filtration seems to me to be one of the most complex and controversial subjects known to present day knowledge. I seem to have been on an endless journey to find what it takes to aquire pure safe drinking water. There is charcoal, there is distillation, there is reverse osmosis, ultra violet light, ozonation, micro filtering and the list of overwhelming confusion goes on and on. To start with,I wish not to ingest chlorine,Flouride,and all of the detergent by products now present in water especially city water. We currently live in Delaware where I believe the water is one of the worst since we are one of the leading cancer causing states!! I am moving my family to Northern Virginia where the City water seems to be loaded with Chlorine, flouride and DBP's. We have chosen to build in the woods and use well water. I still do not totally trust well water either. I would greatly appreciate and welcome all comments and suggestions as to what type of water filtration system would be recommended to assure clean fresh and pure water into our new home for drinking as well as bathing. I would not want to say money is no object however, in this case of my concern I am willing to explore all options. If you have a system thsat works and you are very satisfied with it, please tell me about it.
Thanks and good health to all!
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