Yeah, that's the way men are , but i know what Anja means..
When you have a shining beauty, you see "woow' in men's eyes and they tend to fall for you easily.. And when you lose the youthful tenderness and beauty of your face, they sort of don't notice you.
But, what the hell... anyway, you don't get less love when you lose your beauty, just less admiration and men simply dont't die to sleep with you anymore. I think that's not a big pain