Re: husband/father seeking advice
I truly sympathize, with all of you, your wife included.
First of all, although I am not a dr. I want you to know that this is NOT an ILLNESS! nor is it ALL IN HER HEAD! Believe me she is suffering though (as I also did - bigtime!)43 is kind of young and it would be a long time til menses cease, there may also be emotional issues that are coming to the surface for her she is wrestling with as well...make sure she gets some alone/rest time REGULARLY with no demands for a while - 3 year old boys can really test even a saint (even if they are little angels!!!!)
Two things that come to mind immediately - and I learned a lot of this from Andreas (Ask Andreas)material CUT OUT caffeine, meat, alcohol, any drugs: all very acidifying to the system (look into acid alkaline foods on the wev... try to get his "Key to Health & rejuvination" if you can, (Auhtorhouse.com $7) There is a body type test that will help her find the RIGHT foods for her body type and believe me this has helped me TREMENDOUSLY
and when he is taking new questions, post this to his forum for further advice... You and your wife may not want to but incorporating
Liver Flushes may help as well - particularly if she used oral contraceptives for a long period of time!
Best wishes and blessings to your wonderful family,
Deborah