Re: husband needs help!

I empathize with you both.

Perimenopausal symptons don't originate with age (how old is she btw?) they just intensify, amplify existing malaise.

And often there are other health problems swept under the carpet of menopause, like Chronic Fatigue Syndroomme and others.

I would suggest a psychotherapist. That she talk to someone, social worker, psychologist, about herself, her health and her overall feelings.

I think you pointing out her behaviours to her only aggravates. I think you should ask a female friend of hers to suggest she see someone.

Also, think that the honeymoon always end. And are you yourself being realistic about your married couple and life, just a thought...

All the best, Tara