Your friend is absolutely correct. There are so many options out there these days for divorce it's not even funny. My now X husband and I divorce about 3 years ago. My sister told me about a company that made it so simple. All she did was print, sign and file. Her husband didn't even have to attend court to finalize the divorce. They prepared her to represent herself in court. No lawyer, no lawyer fees. Can't be beat and totally legal. Changed my life...
Best of luck! Stay strong always!