A Lesson On Men and Sex For The Ladies...Re: I love you, Anne...Re: OK..I will go 1st..

Girls,

One in three women have been sexually abused. It's very, very difficult for us to talk about it. We feel dirty, ashamed, worthless, as if we are "damaged goods." Our self-worth goes down the toilet, and because of the experience and thinking we no longer have any value, we often continue to get taken advantage of by worthless jerks who are a disgrace to the male gender.

We deserve so much better.

The way I understand men (fellas, don't laugh- remember, men are from Mars and we're on Venus. I have a Venetian world-view lol), they have two levels of attraction toward women. They have an intense physical attraction on the surface level and a much deeper and slower emotional attraction that takes a man a long time to recognize and nurture.

I think we females are the exact opposite. We "fall in love" in two seconds flat, but it takes a long time to express our love with physical intimacy. So it usually takes a guy just as long to "commit" to a girl as it does for a girl to have sex, unless the girl is a tramp.

One thing I don't think I will EVER understand about men is that they will accept casual sex with a girl. There's an attraction, a connection, and a few hours later (or on date #3) they are in the sack. I can't figure out how a girl can be that loose, but I'm old school. lol

What is awful is when a guy gets a girl sloshing drunk or slips a date rape drug into her drink, they start making out, and when she says "no," he doesn't take "no" for an answer. He goes on to the next victim, and she's left destroyed forever.

I have three beautiful daughters and four handsome sons. When each of them arrive at adolescence, I begin to have honest discussions with them about their sexuality, and what to look for in a life partner. I tell my girls that men, with that Y chromosome, are just genetically designed to drool over any woman that comes into their line of vision, and the fewer clothes she wears, the harder it is for a man to contain himself. We ladies have to respect that.

I learned from my sons that men are attracted not only to the female figure, but to a dazzling smile, sparkling eyes, or even a ponytail which reveals a slender neck. My sons also taught me that THE most attractive quality in a woman is girlish innocence and purity. When do we ever hear the word "purity" anymore? My daughters would ask, "So, are we not supposed to smile or look at guys? Are we supposed to wear tents?" Of course my answer is "no," but that we need to be aware of the power we females have to attract men, and be careful not to send the wrong message. If we want our men to be gentlemen, we have to look and act like ladies.

I think the creep that laces a girl's drink and then takes advantage of her should be drawn and quartered. I think women should stay away from bars and night clubs in the first place. There is no place for alcohol or drugs in a Natural Healing lifestyle, except for the alcohol with which we tincture. My belief is that as we purify our bodies through Natural Healing, we will also purify our thoughts, our actions, our friends/circle of influence, our spirits, and our atonement with God.

Thank you, ladies, for sharing your powerful stories.

Heal on!

Wings

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