Re: nobody else seems to see it

Hi Happyness,

Alot of people won't see what he is.They are so clever at hiding their true selves from other people.

I know when this happened to me,I felt compelled to warn others about him~the truth is that when we do this,nine times out of ten we end up looking like we're the insane ones!

Some people either cannot or will not see the truth.

I can say this though,you are not paranoid or jealous,you have every right to feel the way you do.

Sometimes these abusers do start to spread rumours about us,telling lies to anyone that can listen..this takes the heat off them and makes them "look good"

Your true friends and hopefully your sister too,will see through this..if people want to believe him,you don't need them in your life anyway.

I agree with the last post.
Concentrate on you and your healing now.
Learn everything you can about NPD..
Learn what a healthy relationship looks like ..and put yourself first.

Hugs
Sharonxoxo

http://narcissisticabuserecovery.yuku.com/