I understand the situation, but as long as the child is healthy and has a strong family base the size is irrelevant. The family must provide strong support to build the childs self-esteem, self confidence and self awareness. I think we are all conscious about something in our lives, but as we grow and mature we tend to find that all those things don't count in the end. The only thing that counts is your relationship with GOD. I have been going to A.A. meetings for the past 2 months and I have sat with recovering alcoholics, drug addicts from all types of backgrounds and communities. The common theme amongest them is how they all experienced a "Spiritual Awakening", when they surrendered to GOD. Faced the reality that they are powerless and that only GOD can save them. The stories I have heard were so inspiring that I have been sober now for 30 days and it might not sound like a lot to some, but for me that is a milestone. However, I am not here to preach, but helping others is so rewarding that I feel truly blessed and it's my duty to help others grow as well. Life is great a wonderful gift by GOD. Enjoy it, and don't let these minor meaningless issues get in the way..