This is so sad...I know at 13 he is becoming aware about his body, and having everyone know about it only makes it worse. I can't believe his mother would do this to her son. How do you think he would feel knowing that his mom is discussing the size of his unit with aunt gertrude. OMG. Now every time aunt G looks at the kid she is gonna think...that kids got a small....grow up people this is not high school anymore. This is a discussion that should take place between father and son. Obviously, his equipment worked ok..they have several children by the sound of it.