I agree, it is your choice and unfortunately as I said before everything is becoming the opposite of what it should be! As you may know by much of my postings that I am not a christian but I place a very high value on the standard family unit and this trend toward unisex and androgenous values is part of what I feel is part of the upcoming collapse of society! I also feel this is a push from those in power to control the people!
Destroy any strong culture by destroying the family unit and destroying roles designed by nature quickens this collapse!
I feel its unfortunate you feel this way and it is one of my biggest hopes that you are absolutely wrong!
However my friend I am glad that we can be open with our thoughts and concerns and I value our dialogue!