Re: losing the love of my life

hi. i am a rape victim too, its hard it has affected my relationship with my fiancee who is in the same boat as you, if you really love her please be there for her, she needs reassurace that you love her and you might just need to tell her that your not the man who raped her. re assure her you are safe. things can work if you want them too. we are in counseling for couples he needs to know where im coming from, it may help you if you knew where shes coming from. she needs you, i still have some problems, sexally, and its hard and very frustrating you cant just wake up and everythings ok, but she needs to want help too. i see a rape counselor and it does help, it takes time, please be patient with her, go on dates movies, dinner, romance her and i think you'll see a slight difference she needs to know you are safe and arent gonna hurt her
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