Before I posted, I had a talk with her. I told her that if she wanted to be my girlfriend, she needed to act like one. I told her no sex was nessasary, but kindness and closeness was an absolute must.
I met her at her place and she had done a 180. She was kind and sweet again. We even had sex for the first time in a month...twice. I made sure I made her do the undressing as I beleive this gave her more power in the situation. We even talked about her visit to a counsolor next week. What an amazing night. Nights like valentine's day night are why I love this girl so much.
I know I have dark times in the future, but I am happy at the moment. Ya'll words have weighed heavy on me and I am very watchful of my actions and hers.
Has anyone heard about eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR)? Does it help?