Sex is gone again

Sex is gone again...but atleast the kindness has returned. I do beleive the hell that she is putting me through is her trying to regain control. I am an alpha male, but also a caring, consoling person for my circle of friends. I am not a controling, dominating man

God...I wish she was just cheating on me so I could walk away. I did get some good advise from one of my friends. Actions speak louder than words.

For now I am somewhat content. This is really allowing me to look at myself and gain some perspective.
Am I weird for wanting to have sex daily (or multiple times daily) with the woman I love?
Do I need that validation?
What's wrong with me that I can't help her overcome this issue?
How long until I cheat?
What's my reward for all of my good deeds and sacrafices?
If the treament does help, will she break the cycle of pushing away and destroying great relationships?

I am still lost, but finding my way. Any comments would be helpful.