Re: did any one else feel like just giving up on life???
Oh, honey, my heart is breaking for you.... If I hadn't had insurance and my husband hadn't really overcome his feelings that these "head" things aren't real, I could have been you.
The poster who said go to the ER is right. They cannot deny you and my understanding is that if you pay even $10/month on an outstanding bill they will not put you in collections. Stress your abdominal pain or they won't pull in a gynecological consult. That's really important. For that matter, you may need some pyschological help at this point. If you are at all a danger to yourself or your daughter, they have to transfer you to a pyschiatric hospital....where NO ONE will give a darn about your IUD, so plan carefully how you respond to the doctor's questions at the ER.
Or, gosh, I hate to say it, I read a post here somewhere about a woman who took it out herself and said it was not a big deal. I had mine out yesterday and I can see how that's possible...it came out really easily--much easier than going in.
Finally, pray. I don't know where you are spiritually, but God CAN and WILL help you. I will pray for you. Keep us posted.