For the record...

You misunderstand...

I did not say that anyone should go and have tons of sex to try to change the man, its a natural progression in the nature of men.

A long term girlfriend, who is a constant sex companion will EVENTUALLY make a man forget about the ex.

This re-emergence of the ex was way premature. A woman needs to become apart of the mans life, sex and otherwise.

Now I don't say this for women to lay down a grand "plan" of doing this. This is the natural progression of relationships, and it's the way men process and become attached. They are looking for a confidant and a sex partner. Usually sex in the beginning, and then they become quite attached to the friendship. It becomes seamless...but it's always about the sex.....

It wasn't a suggestion for our friend here to do this, it was simply stating what in my gazillion years observing the opposite sex has taught me.

Just for the record, I have not told my women friends out there to go forth, have sex and capture...even though that's the unfortunate way to begin the whole process towards domesticity....

But hey, sex is quite OK if one can learn not to make so much out of it. Men sure don't.

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