"PS-one good thing has come from this suddenly active daydreaming mind of mine. All the fantasies Ive been having have inspired the novel Ive been waiting to write. I kept having this feeling that I was meant to write, that a story would come to me when the time is right. Now, I KNOW what I want to write."
Trysten, I believe you just answered your own question...just to what degree these fantasies reach over into your actual physical experience probably depends on how much of the energy of the fantasies is routed into your novel.
Blessings with that novel! There's a HUGE market out there for romance.