Loving parents to the bits it is not something what u can plan in advance..
Here is my email address (nadia_spiridonova@hotmail.co.uk), if u feel like telling me ur story and get my opinion about it then feel free to email me. I will answer u either next day or withing some days (it depends how busy I will be with my work). U are not obliged to send me any emails or talk about it but if u feel like now or a bit later then I will be happy to listen to and help in the way I can. Take ur time:)