Very interesting! I am thinking that since him and I are/were not in alignment as to what we want/desire/focus on, it did not go through (which is why we split up once I focused on what I want instead of what I dont want just to get more of it).
Because had it gone through, he may have contacted me back and I may have lost my alignment. Not necessarily because of an argument but simply because it may have affected me hearing his voice. I may have lost my focus on what I want.