Well I have to point out the process 22 in the book "Ask and It Is Given" for your dilemma.
As well, Abraham said something about that you can't feel good and bad at the same time. Have to find that excerpt.
Ynaig
Edit:
Sorry for the delay, I was helping my roommate who arrived sick from work (with CS, alkalizing bath etc).
That excerpt I can't find, so I guess it's in one of the books by Abraham. I'll look now since the roommate is sleeping now. I just remember reading about it.