Re: To julie819

Uklad:

My cycle last 4 days on the 4th day I have to peel. On day 1 and 2 I can kiss all I want (make out kisses, etc.) On the 3rd day I can just give normal kisses.

julie819:

Yes, this time with EC has been both good and bad. Like yeah it sucks to have EC but at the same time I meet my wife and thats awesome! On a side note I just had my first born yesterday!!!! What do I do to stay positive?? Hmm well I look at other things out there. For example, I look at the tree man (the link was posted here some time ago). It's a guy who has a disease where he is becoming a tree! His hands are like roots and has like wood on his face. Now I would rather have EC than have that! I'd rather have EC than have AIDS, Cancer, etc!! There are people who have WORSE things than we do! So I always think about that. The other day I was in the mall and I saw this girl and she was pretty but I noticed her lips and they were really really chapped! Like extreme chapped! They looked like a piece of lip was missing not only did I notice this but I noticed something perhaps more important than that! I noticed that she looked really happy! She looked like she didn't care about her lips. Her lips looked MUCH MUCH worse than mine and she looked happy! I didn't look at her like less of a girl and I dont think people look at me like that eaither! I have told friends and relatives that I have EC and they always tell me that my lips look fine! So If nobody even notices my lips why should I Die over them! Hmmm I don't really limit myself with the mirror but I used to check myself like 3 times each hour now its like I check myself every other once. Now I don't want to lie I still at times get bumbed out about my EC. I wish I didn't have it BUT I just have to accept that I have a condition and thats how God made me. I will try to post pictures of my lips soon so you can see them. Tweet