if you've had it for years and haven't been able to cure it, then that just makes me worry. i've only had it for 6 months, and the last thing i would want is to have this for the next few years, let alone possibly the rest of my life. i still need to finish college, get a job, find a boyfriend and get married, and i know that this will make everything that much more difficult. i also know that the worse it gets, the harder it will be to heal, so i want to do whatever i can now to try to help them, or just get them to a better stage. and while shea butter is one of the better things i've used on them, it really doesn't make them that much better. and yeah, the discoloration is one of the things that i hate the most too. my lips and skin in general are really super sensitive, so i get that really bad.
i really don't know what to do :( i'm so tired of being a hermit