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"""We have chosen everything that has happened to us in order to learn as spirit."""


There is no proof of this.


I used to believe this.

Prior to modern medicine half of all children died by age ten. So did they choose this?

The only thing you learn from experience is that you learn nothing from it.-GBShaw

The most compelling argument against this reincarnation theory is the low state of consciousness of the average person. Thousands of rebirths dont seem to do much for them. Also the extreme rarity of "Enlightened" beings makes one doubt that there is any evolution going on even among spiritual seekers since they must keep coming back as beginners.