Hmm you seem so angry and judgemental. Not everyone shares your beliefs about abortion. You can be judgemental if you want, its ok. I have learned from everything that has ever happened to me in my life. Look in the mirror before you judge others. You dont know me. You dont know anything about me, or what Ive been through in my life, the things Ive learned, etc.
If whether or not someone would have an abortion and be able to live with that is your one condition for deciding if you think them "pathetic" or not, then so be it. Thats your problem, not mine. Have a great day! :-)