What is Disapproval? - How to Allow

When someone sees something they don't like/approve of in you, and you can see that in their eyes and words, it may make you feel that you have done something wrong.

It is not your problem, but theirs. It's their inabilty to be an allower that brings out their negative emotions. It is not your imperfection.

And when it is something you do not like about others actions, it's because you do not allow either.

When you are *tolerating* others, it is Not Allowing. Toleration creates negative emotions, Allowing creates positive ones. Allowing is the route to personal freedom.

Allowing is "I am that which I am, and am pleased with it and joyful in it. And you are that which you are, and while it is different from that which I am, it is also good."

Unless you have a healthy view of yourself, you can never deliberately create, because you are too affected by your opinions of what you think is right and wrong and others opinions of you.

Usually, the one who disapproves of a quality in themselves, will notice it in others. (All judgement is self judgement).

So, accepting, approving, appreciating and allowing yourself to freely be, do or have what you want is the first step to accepting, approving, appreciating and allowing others to be, do or have what they want.

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