Re: Need some relationship advice

Yeah, I hear what you're saying and I agree. It's been very difficult and I've been at my wits end. I blew up on her recently and I'm sort of done at the moment. I told her I was done and confronted her with the idea that if seeing a professional is any sort of simple technicallity that I'm done. I'd rather throw in the towel now then go through the motions. Her goal has to be about seeking help and working this out too. She claims that if she was done she would just have left and would not be putting in the effort. She claims she needs space to sort herself and her feelings out. I still think it's crazy. I guess I'm backing off and hoping that a professional can work this stuff out.