Thank you for your advice I appreciate it greatly. It means alot to me. I'm not with the guy in jail anymore. I'm with the other guy. And all the things you described is how I feel about him. I maybe young, but trust me my life has not been easy and I've more than learned from it. This may not be THE relationship but I'm willing to give it a shot. I want to be a wife in the suburbs with my kids. That's what will make me happy.....and that I know.....