OMG - WHY? Oh, please don't go - Please don't misunderstand me!

Unless it's because of the arguing of others...

(I tend to feel defensive myself, when others want to argue!)

Actually, Killimunati, we NEED more like you around, and perhaps you want to leave for awhile because bullies get you fired up and your gentle soul doesn't need that for awhile?

Then, I understand. But please don't leave because you feel unwelcome. I just think that when bullies are allowed to keep bullying, it brings out the worst...

...in all of us! (I include myself in that mess - I think I'm only feeling less intense cuz I'm finally feeling better)....fwiw