if someone is going to call someone a "loser" on a support forum, they should be banned...
This is supposed to be a place for support. Those of us who find ourselves blessed or lucky enough to find places like this (who have been so sick that suicide used to pervade our daily thoughts) do not need to deal with posters who will call us a "loser". We have already felt like losers our entire lives because of how sick we are (or were).