I have been to the other side and I still have a hard time decribing it... There is one light that runs through all of us I could loosely call love or God and everything else is a lesser aspect of God...
We are all a multiple personality of God who is love however there is a hidden aspect of God that is the absence of love... Just like the good family man who is a serial killer...death and dying was created by this other personaility of God. I call him the Librarian...
This other personaility of God exists only in the illusion of time and time ends...and when it ends... the illusions vanish and what remains is love...and that is way over simplifying but I will try to be more clear later......