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hello Melissa and to anyone else in this forum. I don't have any problems with libido or impotence, but I do have chronic fatigue, and recently I switched over to an alkaline diet and am drinking an alkaline drink with blackstrap molasses mentioned in the moreless ph acid alkaline forum (is it ok to mention that?) which has tremendously helped (I truly believe that any disease or problem with the body simply means that an individual is out of balance, and one of the main ways to stay in balance is to have an alkaline ph close between 7 and 7.5).
However, I still am interested in general which herbs and supplements might also just increase overall energy. It seems to me that some of the same supplements and herbs used to increase libido and erectile dysfunction also are the same ones that individuals with general fatigue use to increase their overall energy. That being said, what supplements and herbs does anyone know about or simply notice that give them,in general, more energy? IN other words, which ones are crossovers, meaning that they also would be good to raise overall energy levels? -
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Hi im starting to have a problem me and my girl didnt peform oral sex on me for a month and when she did I had an orgasim but after that I haven't had one and she turns me on and is not doing anything wrong but I would like to know why im not orasgiming like I use to it happen a few times after the month and im concorned can u help me thank you or wait another thing she does turn me on and im really inlove-
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thats horrible..
ever after my pregnancy my breasts have been sagging.. do your think triactol bust serum would work?
i'm too insecure to have sex because my breasts look aweful after the twins :(
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jus a coincidence? #97961 16 y 8,882jus a coincidence?
hi melissa and all,
a few months ago, while drinkin alcohol in a club, my boyfriend french kissed me, and i had a cut in my mouth.
and two weeks after the kiss, i had diarrhoea and my lips started to peel.
it gets white in contact with water, and now it start to harden and peel every few days.
he smokes alot and might be sexually active.
my lips still peeling bad, i would like to ask if this could be a reaction due to the kiss?
or because of alcohol i drank?
cause i seldom drink alot, only that night..
im feelin depressed and regret my actions. its hard for a girl..
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I don't think alcohol would cause that kind of reaction, but you should have a doctor look at it. Sometime oral herpes can appear the way you described, and a trained health professional would be able to identify what it is and the possible causes.
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i’ve consulted many doctors and they said its not oral herpes. i had bulimia before last year, could it be caused by insuffient nutrients etc and the alcohol made it come out this way? thanks ....
i've consulted many doctors and they said its not oral herpes.
i had bulimia before last year, could it be caused by insuffient nutrients etc and the alcohol made it come out this way?
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Glad that you were checked for oral herpes. Yes, nutritional deficiencies could manifest in that way, and alcohol can aggravate certain symptoms. Stomach acid from bulimic purging can also create ....
Glad that you were checked for oral herpes. Yes, nutritional deficiencies could manifest in that way, and alcohol can aggravate certain symptoms. Stomach acid from bulimic purging can also create inflammation in the mouth.
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seems like exfoliative cheilitis, you should join us in the peeling lips forum. -MtL
seems like exfoliative cheilitis, you should join us in the peeling lips forum.
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Hi Melissa. I assume you've heard it all so perhaps you could help me out?
I have been dating someone for a year, and we're both definitely attracted to eachother. He remarks on my appearance all the time and is clearly aroused when we are kissing, hugging, etc. He always achieves an erection and orgasm when we do hook up. However, I'm confused...because in past relationships I've had guys who were very "sexual" sent me erotic text messages, asked for naked pictures, would tell me they couldn't wait to get home so they "bleep" me, were all over me all the time. Now, admittedly, this is the longest relationship I've had since I was 20 or so, and I"m now 33--so maybe something changes after time...but he's never been like that. He's always been happy to have sex, but never really GUNG HO or erotic like those other guys. I know he occasionally watches porn, but he never asks for anything in the bedroom other than the usual positions, a little dirty talk, that's it. One time we talked about doing something different but he said he didn't want to "degrade" me...I said "degrade away!" but it seems like he reserves that stuff for fantasy. I'm frustrated on two counts I suppose--I can't help but wonder if from the very start I wasn't the right girl for him (though he says he's very much in love w/ me, wants to move in together, I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc.)..Is this normal? Maybe if he were with another girl, one he found more attractive, he would be thinking about sex all the time? We have sex a few times a week right now--but as mentioned above, it can be a little routine. Within a month of our meeting he told me he was having a hard time "keeping up with me"--we had first met, so I was aiming sometimes for twice a day--definitely once a day. He says he's never been into doing it that often...but maybe if he met the right girl he would? I just keep coming back to it being my fault or something--like if I were attractive or hot enough he would have more desire. Are there other men out there like this? I love him so, so much--but am obviously insecure a lot of the time. Any help would be appreciated. thank you!View all messages by #88160 on this forum, all forums.-
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I don’t think the issue has anything to do with your attractiveness, but I can understand why you might think so. When men have a low libido with their partner but are engaged in an active fantasy ....
I don't think the issue has anything to do with your attractiveness, but I can understand why you might think so. When men have a low libido with their partner but are engaged in an active fantasy life that involves degrading behavior, they may be suffering from a sexual addiction. The number of men who have this condition is staggering, and I believe it is a symptom of the sexual objectification of women in our culture. You might want to look at the book "Sexual Anorexia" by Patrick Carnes and see if any of the patterns he describes fit your boyfriend's behavior. Also consider having a frank discussion with your boyfriend about his sexual history and find out what kind of degrading sex acts he has been involved in. You'll gain a lot of insight about what's going on, be able to depersonalize his behavior toward you, and work constructively with him on creating a healthy, fulfilling sexual relationship with you. Let me know if that answers your question.
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This is a reply to # 1,186,291Thank you for your answer, but I don’t think he has an active fantasy life either...the ”degrading” behavior we were referring to was that I wanted him to hold my head during oral sex--be a little ....
Thank you for your answer, but I don't think he has an active fantasy life either...the "degrading" behavior we were referring to was that I wanted him to hold my head during oral sex--be a little more aggressive. i also wanted him to ejaculate on me...so maybe I have the problem? He didn't bring these things up...I did--but he admitted that the latter turned him on, but he just didn't feel right doing it to me. So...I guess I'm still confused....-
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It sounds like he’s dealing with some sexual shame. None of the behaviors you mentioned don’t have a degrading quality to them. He may have some strong programming around sex from his upbringing. ....
It sounds like he's dealing with some sexual shame. None of the behaviors you mentioned don't have a degrading quality to them. He may have some strong programming around sex from his upbringing. Do you know what his religious background is? That often has an important influence.
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Cassie, When i was with women I loved, i wanted to feel close to them when we made love. call it insecurity or sexual shame, or whatever, but cumming on her face? i mean, how can i.... feel clo ....
Cassie,
When i was with women I loved, i wanted to feel close to them when we made love. call it insecurity or sexual shame, or whatever, but cumming on her face? i mean, how can i.... feel closer to her by cumming on her. It would make me feel like shit to do it, even if in some strange way its attractive. you know, i didnt even know this was attractive until this year, it seems in p 0 r n thats the most popular thing. But p 0 r n is not about love, its kind of about self abuse through sex, if you think about it. It sounds like he is a tender guy, maybe not as aggressive in the sack as you want, but maybe not as self-hating as your previous (so-called) erotic boyfriends.
I dont know ask Melissa, but I don't think she should be promoting cumming on women, unless she has some agenda I don't know about.View all messages by #99262 on this forum, all forums.-
I’m not promoting any particular sex acts, but rat...
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I’m not promoting any particular sex acts, but rather looking at what is driving sexual behavior. I have worked with women who enjoy having men ejaculate on various parts of their bodies, and I do ....
I'm not promoting any particular sex acts, but rather looking at what is driving sexual behavior. I have worked with women who enjoy having men ejaculate on various parts of their bodies, and I don't label that porn. Eroticism is a very individual thing, and I focus on exploring the heart connection between lovers during any sex act. If it's not heart-based, it's a form of objectification.
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Sounds like the guy you have now is a step above the other ones you had earlier. All the erotic stuff you were describing goes along with a superficial relationship.
Sounds like the guy you have now is a step above the other ones you had earlier.
All the erotic stuff you were describing goes along with a superficial relationship.View all messages by #48688 on this forum, all forums.
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Do you know if hirsutic hairs just fall out once one has cured oneself of the condition, or do you have to get rid of the existing stuff, which subsequently just does not grow back?View all messages by #86303 on this forum, all forums.-
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Sorry I don’t have the answer to that question. That is not my area of expertise. Melissa
Sorry I don't have the answer to that question. That is not my area of expertise.
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Sex, Jealousy, and Healing/Clarity
Hi,
My girlfriend recently got extremely jealous when I had a female roommate move in. There seemed no alternative but to ask the new roommate to relocate. I was not attracted to her at all, and she seemed to be the type of person that would work well as a roommate and possibly even as a friend to my girlfriend. I was really challenged about having to ask the roommate to move, though we all moved past it. The roommate while living in my house repaired a bed comforter by hand with her sewing kit. This having been discovered by my girlfriend made her furious and recreated the jealousy again, even though the roommate had moved several weeks ago. It created an argument for us and I got angry that this type of jealousy could continue even after the person had moved. I feel I am in an unstable relationship and have put a lot of effort into trying to keep the balance in a situation that may or may not find secure footing and balance. Any suggestions? I have never quite been in a situation like this.-
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It sounds like your girlfriend is being unreasonable since you did ask your roommate to move out. Have you experienced frequent episodes of this magnitude of jealousy in the relationship? ....
It sounds like your girlfriend is being unreasonable since you did ask your roommate to move out. Have you experienced frequent episodes of this magnitude of jealousy in the relationship?
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Hi Melissa,
My boyfriend and I have been together for about two years, and he is wonderful. Not only do we both know ourselves well, but we are also physically, mentally, and emotionally compatible. We are still young - college-aged - but I know that we both see potential in a long-term, loving partnership. For the past year or so, we have been struggling with maintaining our own individual lives; at some point along the line, we got into the habit of spending every moment with one another, and neither of us ended up being happy. As such, the last few months have presented a real struggle - and this is not the first time we've struggled with this issue- to break our old, unhealthy habits. About six months ago, we took a break from our relationship because of this exact same issue, and about a month ago, we started talking about ending things between us again.
Fortunately, most of this was due to certain circumstances - one was in school while the other was not - and I have been looking forward to the new year when things will be going well for each of us. We also spent the winter break in different places, and it was good for both of us to be able to have our own space.
The trouble is this: The other day, I inadvertently found a text message in his phone to a girl he used to date (not seriously) about 6 years ago. Since we went to the same high school (but did not actually know one another while we were there), I happen to know this girl pretty well. The message made reference to the fact that they had been talking, and that they should stop texting so frequently because he didn't want me to see anything.
When I confronted him about it, he told me that he had been talking to her about us, trying to sort things out in his own head. He said that he was thinking very seriously about ending things with us during the winter break (though he didn't tell me about this sentiment, as he felt breaking up over the phone was not dignified), and he was pretty certain that it was going to happen. He said that he hadn't wanted me to see the texts because they were, admittedly, a little flirty, but nothing that he would actually act on. He also admitted that it was nice to be able to talk to someone in a faux-loving way without any of the baggage that we have, and that the phone created a safe "distance" for something like that... after all, I really do trust that he would never cheat on me physically. He says that, in reality, his feelings for her are strictly platonic, that it didn't actually mean much to him, and that, in having his conversations with her, he realized that the kind of traits in her are not even what he wants in a partner, but that what he sees in me is what he loves. Now, in hearing all of this and really knowing him well, I actually think he's being honest. And it can't go without being said that I am surprised that I really believe his side of the story and understand his actions, because I am very, very sensitive and skeptical when it comes to trusting boyfriends. I had a boyfriend cheat on me in high school when we were infatuated with one another, and while I, with time, learned to trust my current boyfriend, that residual fear of trusting does sometimes surface.
I am concerned! I appreciate my boyfriend's candidness about the issue, and I do know that he truly is a good person (else I would not be with him!)However, despite the fact that I do think he is being totally honest, I am worried that this is going wreck the trust I've worked so hard to build. I don't want to be in a relationship when I can't trust my partner; it simply isn't fair to either of us. However, since he's been back, we've both noticed how things are really starting to look up for us... for good. The question, then, is this: Do I get out of the relationship as soon as possible because I am afraid that I will not be able to let this go and trust him when the going gets tough with us? Or should I give our relationship a shot since things are really and truly looking up for both of us? And if I do choose to stay with him, while I know INTELLECTUALLY that these events are the past, how can I learn to know that EMOTIONALLY?-
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I guess I could have made that a lot simpler! What it boils down to for me is that I have had trust issues in the past with him, though they have been unfounded. Now, it seems like there is a reason to mistrust him, or at least to mistrust him when things aren't going well between the two of us. It seems like, given a "rough patch" in our relationship, he is willing to engage in behavior that makes me feel uncomfortable or betrayed - and, to me, him having interest in another person and pursuing that in a verbal or emotional way, feels like just as much of a betrayal as the physical act of cheating.
My concern is that, since my PAST experience has made it difficult for me to trust, I am quick to be overly sensitive or prying when that trust feels threatened. And while I feel like we are perhaps at a good place now, if things go south again, I already know that I'm going to wonder if he's having pseudo-intimate or actually intimate conversations with other girls... he even said himself that i only have to worry about that kind of thing when things are bad... That means that my trust issues would resurface with him, and that would just send us into a downward spiral that we simply wouldn't be able to get out of. I think that, ultimately, I feel like I have this enormous burden to make sure that everything stays "good." But I'm only human! And the pressure of that proposition sounds daunting and I don't want to go through the emotional strain of having trust issues, potentially being in an unhealthy relationship again, and ending things with him on a bad note somewhere down the road.
I appreciate your feedback. Tonight I am really going to try to just experience and not think... I am absolutely an overthinker! I will let you know how that works out! And I think you're very right about needing to make up my mind and move on with this incident. Alas, as much as I genuinely want that, how can I learn to suppress, once and for all, that internal dialogue that so often reminds me of the issue?
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It sounds like you're taking on too much responsibility for making the relationship work. He should be speaking with YOU about his concerns, not with a female friend that he is having a flirtatious relationship with. My take is that he's avoiding dealing with his own issues, and his conversations with this friend are a form of escapism. Have you suggested seeing a counselor or coach with him? If he's truly committed to the relationship, he'll be open to the idea.
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This is a reply to # 1,088,222Thanks M, I think you’re absolutely right... I am definitely taking way too much responsibility for making our relationship work. I also agree that his actions are a form of escapism... though ....
Thanks M,
I think you're absolutely right... I am definitely taking way too much responsibility for making our relationship work. I also agree that his actions are a form of escapism... though from what exactly, I am not sure. You suggested "his own issues," and I think you're right, but could you help clarify what kind of issues you think they might be? I'm not certain if you mean relationship/communication issues, or personal issues (like insecurity, etc.), and I don't have enough knowledge about this sort of thing to know if these personal issues could manifest themselves in this way.
In regards to the counseling... I have not proposed anything like this at all. Though the relationship is serious, we are still quite young (I am only 20, he is 22), so it seems almost inappropriate. While I think it would helpful, I guess it seems like if it takes that much work to make our relationship work at THIS age, maybe it isn't worth out time. What do you think? Or do you have any alternate approaches in light of this information?
Thanks for responding! It gives me much to think about.-
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The issues I was referring involve a general fear of intimacy, manifesting as not communicating with you directly and having flirtatious email exchanges with another woman. I wouldn’t be able to t ....
The issues I was referring involve a general fear of intimacy, manifesting as not communicating with you directly and having flirtatious email exchanges with another woman. I wouldn't be able to tell you the root cause of his fear without working with him.
I don't think going to counseling is inappropriate for your age. As far as I'm concerned, it's never too early to learn good relationship skills.
All relationships take a certain amount of work. It becomes too much work when both partners aren't equally committed to healing the relationship, That is my concern in your situation. I generally recommend that if one partner feels they are doing too much work, they should back off and see how the other person responds.
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I have a two year old who has been suffering with an droopy eyelid now for 1 month (1 week trying to treat at home and 3 weeks to wait for appointment w/ Nationwide Children's Hospital). After waiting to see my child after almost nearly a month (a crying shame, no pun intended) to see my child they diagnosed my son w/ droopy eyelid (which I and my wife had already expected) and have scheduled surgery for Feb. 8th. We've been working fervently to find a more sensible alternitive which doesn't require surgery to a two year old's eyelid. CAN YOU PLEASE ASSIST US WITH YOUR EXPERTISE? THANK YOU KINDLY, AND MAY GOD BLESS ALL YOUR ENDEAVORS! WITH SURGERY SCHEDULED FEB. 8TH A RESPONSE ASAP WOULD BE GREATLY APPRECIATED.-
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I’m so sorry to hear about your child’s situation. I wish I could advise you about how to proceed, but this is not within my area of expertise. If you would like a referral to someone who may be a ....
I'm so sorry to hear about your child's situation. I wish I could advise you about how to proceed, but this is not within my area of expertise. If you would like a referral to someone who may be able to better advise you, send me an email through my website at www.transformnow.com.
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Was your child vaccinated. Could be adverse reactions to the thimerosal(mercury) from the vaccine.
Was your child vaccinated. Could be adverse reactions to the thimerosal(mercury) from the vaccine.
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