I'm here to help. Most of all though I'll listen.

How are you feeling today? What are your thoughts?

If you don't feel secure talking about this on a public forum, feel free to email me. If you email me though, I may not be as quick to answer, but I will answer.

I understand how you are feeling and can certainly sympathize with your feelings. It's took me a long time to understand my emotions and "come to grips" with my circumstance.

I now feel emotionally healthy and in control, but that doesn't mean that I am perfect or that I don't have the feelings. I just embrace them and understand them as normal while not letting them rule my life. :o)

My life though still has a small emptiness, from where that child would have fit in...and my heart a small hole...where love would have blossomed for that child.

Through our lives we go through trials and situations that mark us and leave scars - fortunately we can get through those trials and learn from them.

But most of all, know that we are here to support you.

Blessings!

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I believe that everything happens for a reason it is up to us to find/see/appreciate our divine path. I heard a saying once that we do not have children but they choose us therefore maybe the child that you are meant to have is already on this earth waiting for you to find it and give it unconditional love possibly you are meant to find the child that was meant just for you. I hope that this helped you somewhat. I myself do not know if I can have children but I keep dreaming of finding the perfect little girl and boy that do not have parents anymore and welcoming them into my arms forever. Sending you divine love TINA

I am very sorry to hear about your situation. I have a question if you don't mind me asking - can you not have children because of complications or have you had a hysterectomy?

Sincerely,
Erika1

Two weeks ago i had an abortion which my partner pushed me in to. We already had a child and our financial situation and relationship was not good. Anyway, after agonising over my decision for 4 weeks (the time it took for my appointment at the hospital) i realised that far from being a villain my partner was actually right. He was doing the responsible thing and he was thinking of the child. It was breaking his heart as well as mine and i could see that. I realise that my story is a little different from yours as i was already blessed with having a beautiful child. But ask yourself how your life would have turned out today had you had your child. You could not provide for your child and your decision, like mine, was wholy selfless. Im sure your mother loves you dearly and would never knowingly hurt you in any way. I hope this has provided you with some answers and i wish you happiness for the future. Good luck.