Over the past thirteen years with my wife, I was on the brink of divorce because of her insistance that I was either fooling around or chatting on the internet to women.

The truth was, I never, ever, did anything like this. But her constant harrasment, accusations and phone calls to see what I was doing, turned my soul. I would be willing to walk away if not for two things, my two children. Upon our most recent Divorce action, I was going to leave, I had too, My sanity was in jepardy.

My wife, in thirteen tormented years, has NEVER said I'm sorry for anything.
But on the night before, she asked what would make me stop the Divorce? This was easy. An appology. Plain and simple. I was humbled by her response. She couldn't appologise enough.

I felt she had learned that her attitude had to change. So, I stopped the divorce.

Now here is where the triad comes in.

The day after, I sent an email to an old classmate that I had dated when we were teens. Our first emails were pretty calm, normal how ya doin, type stuff. But since then. We have rekindled the relationship tripplefold.
We have realized that we are so much alike and that we could be, Perfect for each other. Yes there are a few years between then and now, and another thing, there are a few miles between us, like 3000. But we cannot seem to get enough of one another. The thing that I have been accused of for thirteen years is now reality and true. I'm cheating and I do not feel guilty about it. We want to be together.

Again, my only reason for staying, is my children. I will not abandon them. They are my reason for life. They are the reason I stay, But, she does not want to wait eight more years, and I don't blame her. I am just as ancious.

Where is this going?
Do I stop it?
It may be "the one".

As a post script.
My wife has stopped her accusations and phone calls and seems to be the woman I married.
How long it will last?