my friend had this problem when he had a candida overgrowth problem.

he basically lived on crappy sugary junk foods and not enough fiber.
you may want to do a candida cleanse.

also get yourself screen for all stds. it doesnt matter how many people you have been with. it only takes one.

i would suggest trying a spiritual discipline where you can learn techniques to move the energy to the heart consciously, so that the awareness becomes centered in the higher spheres.
http://www.pranayama.org/Merchant2/merchant.mvc?Screen=CTGY&Category_Code=TEC...
the techniques are available free of charge with a suggested donation if you feel like it.it may take time to feel the force but as i practise myself i find its worth it. also being creative with anything, like playing the guitar etc will help redirect the energy.
all the best

Make sure you do prostate exam. It may not be the most comfortable exam, but it doesn't last long, and it may show if you have real reason for concern. Also, some semen will stay behind after ejaculation and when you urinate what was left behind will come out - that's probably what you see.

Other things you're mentioning don't make much sense, so maybe you're exaggerating, or maybe something's really wrong... The pain you feel could even be just psychosomatic - meaning, you feel what you fear, not the other way.

Even if there IS something wrong, it is almost certainly due to your emotions. Try to learn to control your emotions, make sure no emotion goes unnoticed, make sure your thoughts are positive, make sure you love yourself rather then criticize yourself... This may take years to really get there, and is best done with help of a good psychologist. Do NOT take any drugs, ever. You may on the other hand, try to take some vitamin C and complex B, perhaps even E. Those are harmless, but very important for all of us.

And one more thing: I don't suffer from premature ejaculation, but if I don't have sex for a few days, and if my better half is really hot and turning heads on the street, and I can't wait to get her in bed, believe me, I will not last very long. But the beauty of it is that you do it once, take a little break and then you can last a lot longer second time!

Complaining about premature ejaculation is like complaining that your first cookie didn't last very long. Well, if you were really hungry, I am sure it couldn't last very long, and that's why there are many more cookies to enjoy!

So, take it easy, learn to enjoy life, and your "failure" to last when you are trying so hard to be the sex machine, is something that deserves nothing more then - "Wow, you really turn me on..." and then chill, chat with her what is it that she likes, maybe give her some other type of pleasure and then when you're ready again, it will be the ride of her life!

Semen in the urine - Semen and urine will never get mixed up while letting out, even though the outlet is same for both. The architecture of the neck of the bladder is designed in such a manner that contracture of the neck of the bladder restricts the entry of sperm and leakage of urine. But in the case of infection/diseases of urethra and prostate and in diabetic complications, semen can get mixed with urine with incontinence or may get propelled into the bladder. When the semen gets ejaculated into the bladder, the urine is found to be cloudy while being passed. But in the case of semen getting mixed with urine just at the time of urination, due to strain and incontinence, then drooling of semen will be seen while ending up the urine. Prostatorrhea is often confused with spermatorrhoea. But it can be easily differentiated with microscopic examination of the discharge, i.e. prostatorrhoea has no sperms at all, compared to spermatorrhoea. Any way, losing more seminal fluid/prostatic fluid will devitalise our body.

Incidences of spermatorrhoea –Higher incidence of spermatorrhoea is frequently noted in the age group of 18-30 years. It is most commonly seen in unmarried, sexually perverted persons (dreamers), and in sexually transmitted diseases (STD). Also higher incidence of spermatorrhoea and impotency are often noted in men who stay away from their wife with suppressed sexual desires. Anyhow, most men would have experienced wet dream/night emissions at one time or the other, irrespective of good physique or power of mind.

Causes – are mainly

Polluted mind

Perverted sexual behaviours and dreams

Excessive masturbation/overindulgence in sex

Urinary tract infection spreading to prostate/seminal vesicles

Chronic constipation

Diabetic complications

Symptoms – The core symptoms of night emissions/involuntary loss of semen in urine are exhaustion and weakness. The common presenting features are:

Drooling of urine at the end of urination

Cloudy urine

Incontinence or drooling of semen even at slightest stimulation (watching erotic scenes, reading novels, talking to girls, etc.)

Burning sensation during/after urination

Ejaculation seems to have less volume and very thin (low viscose) semen

Impotency and early ejaculation

Dull and depressed with irritable mood/psychosis

Loss of memory and inability to concentrate

Headache and drowsiness

Sleeplessness with lascivious/vivid dreams

Sunken, dull and burning eyes

Hollow cheeks with disfiguring pale face

Cramps/pain in back and legs

Tremors with nervousness

Pain in spermatic cord (in groin) - Spermoneuralgia

Offensive sweat



Diagnosis & investigations - The need of scientific tests are:

Semen analysis and culture to check the presence of sperms as well as infection

Ultra sound scan to rule out prostate problems

Routine blood tests including electrolytes to rule out any metabolic disorders

Hormone tests for

Testosterone and follicle stimulating hormone - to analyse testicular functions

PSA - to rule out benign prostate hypertrophy (enlargement) BPH

Complications –

Weight loss

Nervous weakness

Growth and learning process will be affected when there is sexual excess or excessive seminal loss in the teens

Chronic inflammation of seminal vesicles and prostate

Testicular failure/atrophy

Prevention
Avoid

Stress & Strain

Stimulants like alcohol, drugs, tobacco chewing, smoking, coffee and tea

Meat, chicken, fish and fatty diets

Drug cocktails

Overindulgence in sex

Take care of

Constipation with water, vegetables and fruits

Health by taking oats, dry fruits such as dates, nuts, etc.

General treatment – Since most of the times there won’t be any abnormality in functions or investigations, general physicians encourage patients psychologically that nocturnal emissions are a normal occasional event / a physiologically overwhelming process. Also, just for patient’s satisfaction, they simply prescribe multivitamins, zinc, selenium supplements, etc., with the advice to avoid lascivious thoughts/masturbation/overindulgence in sex. The change of attitude/lifestyle (i.e. stopping the masturbation and overindulgence in sex all of a sudden) often brings more nocturnal emission for the time being as a continuation of habit/secretions. Doctors, if they find any good reason, they would go for controlling or eliminating it (infection or other irritants), or otherwise, they have to simply go with strengthening of vitality with supplements, etc.

Homeopathic approach – Active participation in sex/erotic thoughts will stimulate the pituitary to provoke the testis for producing more number of sperms and more secretions in seminal vesicles. When this continuous habit or process is interrupted with temporary sexual abstinence or stoppage of masturbation, there might be an involuntary ejaculation which should be considered as normal. In due course, if abstinence continues, it will slow down by itself. But if it is felt more or persists continuously or happens to flow in urine with incontinence, Homeopathy can surely help to revive normalcy by correcting continence, energising the nerves and muscles of the organs, making the semen high viscous (thick), etc.

Draining of semen usually disappoints people with minimal semen ejaculation, low viscous (thin watery) semen, erectile dysfunction, early ejaculation without satisfaction in sex, nervousness, impotency, etc. But by maintaining good habits and taking Homeopathy treatment, normalcy can be resumed at the earliest without any complications.

Even though spermatorrhoea is considered a non-pathological condition, it affects body and mind, in so exhaustive and annoying a way that everyone will be compelled to go for treatment. Patients, without having any patience to see fruitful results, go on changing doctors and take too many worthless drug cocktails and worsen the condition with complications. With this attitude, many often get trapped in the hands of quacks where they also lose self-esteem, confidence in sexual life and marriage and lead a dejected life.

Homeopathy is a wonder of scientific application and not a magical prescription. Homeopathy treats the person’s mind and physique (characteristic of a person as well as the disease) to provide dramatic relief. But one should keep in mind that it will take some time to regain stamina and potency, revoke semen loss, revive semen normalcy in volume and viscosity, etc. Homeopathy can quarantine the progress of the disease and can cure the situation in due course without any recurrences.

Homeopathic medicines commonly used in cases of spermatorrhoea/seminal losses are Acid acetic, Acid phos, Acid picric, Agnus castus, Avena sativa, Caladium, Calc Carb, Calc phos, Cantharis, Causticum, Chinchona, Conium, Damiana, Gelsemium, Ginseng, Kali brom, Lycopodium, Nat mur, Nuphar, Nux vom, Osmium sanc, Selenium, Sepia, Stannum met, Staphysagria, Titanium, Yohimbinum, Zinc met, etc. These medicines should be taken under the advice and diagnosis of a qualified Homoeopath.

Best of all is good food, good thought, good habit and good sleep

Some thoughts.

Semen in the urine after ejaculation. This is normal for me, and I've never blinked twice at it. I just consider it normal since there will still be some remaining in the pipe after ejaculation ;). But it depends on the amount I suppose. The previous poster seems to know what he's talking about.

Premature ejaculation. Well who doesn't! If this is of concern and you want to perform better, you probably will have to train yourself. Er, that means learning to recognise when you are going to finish and then back off before you do. This of course will require practice alone. After some time and practice you will be able to recognise and back off(/slow down/take a break) when you need to. Then the same can be applied when you get lucky with a girl.

There are also exercises that you can do to strengthen you pc muscle. That is the muscle that you use to stop urination and also to strengthen an erection to a degree. You can investigate this further on the net.

And by the way, until you find a way around these issues, don't put yourself under pressure. Just relax a bit with the knowledge that premature ejaculation is normal, experienced by all at various times, and can be overcome with a bit of training and practice.
Cheers

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