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Hello. I am new to curezone. I wanted to post a message reguarding somethings that happened to me along time ago. I was sexually melested as a child for mant many years. This was done of course by family memebers. I know that this has happened to many many people. I need help and hopefully some support on how to deal with this. I have to say that I've know this for a long time. I am just coming to realize that it must be bothering me more than I wanted to believe. I can't seem to trust any man. It seems to be causing alot of problems in my relationships. So, please if there is anyone out there that may be able to help me to start getting through this PLEASE....... do.
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This is a reply to # 534,060Here's the link to the child abuse survivors forum, i think that forum may better help you. good luck...
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- Here's how you get past it MisterDoug
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This is a reply to # 534,060Here's my two cents about that situation:
#1. Whoever did that to you is f#!cked up, period. You did not realize it when you were a small child, but now that you're older, you know that they sick and insane and there's really nothing you can do about it, it's just an injustice that you had to suffer.
I know 'cause I was also abused as a kid, and that's basically how I feel now. I still to this day wish I could kill my Dad, but I won't. About the only thing I can do is realize that he's crazy and sick, and avoid other sick people like that in my life. It sucks, but anyone who does something like that to someone is a scumbag and I would AVOID them, even if they ARE in your family, I would have nothing to do with them. That is the main problem with sociopaths, is they trick you into thinking that they're good people, when really you should stay as far away from them as possible. Don't be decieved, keep your distance.
If you start feeling very angry towards that person then that is a good thing. You should be angry, that sh*t is unbelievable.
That's how I've come to cope with my own abuse, I hope it can give you some insight...
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Sorry for the way I worded that message, but that is really the truth. Abuse is very confusing because of the fact that- at the time when the abuse took place, you were being manipulated by that person.
Unfortunately, if you go to councelors many times they will make the problem worse because many councelors are sociopaths themselves. There is only one way to get past the abuse- by realizing the truth- that the person who did that to you is f*cked up, and you should hate them for it. Once you realize this fact, you will be over your abuse. ©†ƒ……•™¼‡_Original_Message_¾€š½ž¢«»¬ï°©
Sorry for the way I worded that message, but that is really the truth. Abuse is very confusing because of the fact that- at the time when the abuse took place, you were being manipulated by that person.
Unfortunately, if you go to councelors many times they will make the problem worse because many councelors are sociopaths themselves. There is only one way to get past the abuse- by realizing the truth- that the person who did that to you is f*cked up, and you should hate them for it! It may sound extreme, but it is the truth.
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This is a reply to # 534,064Thank you for responding. I just, well honestly I had never really given a thought to me being molested well not for along time. But I realize now that I am older that maybe it has affected me more than I think. I know that I am very insecure about just everthing. I am overly jeleous. I guess I want to know does what happend to me play apart in the way that I am. I seem to drive every guy that I am with away. But not only am I insecure I have no self-esteem. And it kills me. Things are so bad right now. I am about to loose the guy that I am with right now because of these things. We have been together for over three years. But now he is ready to walk away. Can someone please help me to start understanding this.- Re: Here's how you get past it firegirl
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This is a reply to # 534,089Any kind of abuse, especially sexual damages your ability to trust other people as well as trust yourself. There is usually an underlying feeling of shame and guilt and feeling as though you are the one to blame for what happened. Children are egocentric, they think everything is related to them.
You need to start to feel inside yourself where you are storing all of your bad feelings and start to let them out. This can be a VERY hard process. Some books that I really recommend to help you are The Courage to Heal by Ellen Bass and Laura Davis and Rebuilding the Garden by Karla Mclaren. These books helped me tremendously and are still helping me as I go through different stages of healing.
Everyone has their own way of dealing with traumitic childhood events. I don't recommend harbouring anger towards that person, because then they are still affecting you and damaging you. Acid does the most damage to the vessel it's stored in!
Please go and get some books or talk to someone about what you are going through. Don't underestimate how what happened to you is affecting every area of your life. Does your partner know about the abuse? It can be very hard to go through this, so you need to be with someone who can support 200%, I'm not kidding. If this person can't be there for you, let them go and know when you have started healing that you will attract healthier realtionships.
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This is a reply to # 534,097i do't still hold angur towards these people. i dont even really think about it to much. i do still question why but thats about it. my boyfriend does support me, but he is at the point that he tells me that if i dont get help or get over the issues that i have that he dosent know if he can take being with me. i said that i was overly jeleous. i guess that may have been an understament. i was watnig to know if what happened to me would make me feel as insecure as i am. things are so bad with me that when we are watching a movie or aything that has nudity or a sex scene in it i get
1. very unconfortable.
2. i get really mad..
is this normal.......- Re: Here's how you get past it firegirl
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This is a reply to # 534,124You really need to talk to a professional counsellor. There are a lot of community resources for this type of thing and you shouldn't worry about the cost, most of them are free for at least 8 sessions.
Everything that you feel is all related to the abuse, that's why you need to talk to someone so they can help you see how everything is connected. Jealousy, insecurity, being uncomfortable about things that are sexual are all normal for someone who has been abused, plus other things too. Please, please look in your phone book or online and find what resources there are in your community.
The sooner you get some help and talk to someone, the sooner you can have a happy and healthy life!
All the best,
Heather
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