John McCain 2008
i agree with you and your initial gut reaction. first things first...nothing i'm looking at is at all odd or over the top. look me straight in the eyes and believe it. you are pretty normal between your legs and most decent guys would love to be between those folds, with your permission of course. millions of women have lips of your size. i would not say they are small, i'd classify you as between medium and on the smaller end of "large"...if that makes any sense. on the large labia lip scale...we're at about a 6.35 out of 10. that being said, i do believe they could be reduced and with your tight vaginal hole, that would be a great combination. i'm a guy, you get a guy's perspective. you mentioned the porno mag look of their nude models and that your pussy does not match their visual. there's a reason that tighter, less lippy action is more photogenic and sought after. i would look into the procedure if you want that look. that's me, a guy who knows what he's looking at and most guys tend to agree with what i like. i know the visual and understand exactly you're talking about with the "meaty" comment.
you're a really amazing woman to go on a popular site, express what most would consider quite private in nature, and accept opinion from complete strangers. i'm impressed! your self-confidence is to be applauded as well as your willingness to hear the truth and act accordingly. what you're doing is exactly how to change for the better while others live with the situation and just talk about it. good for you and i hope more women will open up about changeable areas of their life...for the better.
no doubt in my mind that there's excess lipage there for all to see and i could see a guy being turned off by that. not most, but a reasonable amount that would garner my attention. could i see your folds not being an issue? certainly. if you went to see a professional and liked what you heard, i say "go for it". if on the other hand you, for any reason whatsoever, didn't like what you heard...forgetaboutit. i'm good with that, too. i vote to explore the reduction of your vaginal labia lips. that's my vote. mccainster's vote. what do say to that?