Married life has become borring.. Help!!

Hi,
I have been married for almost 5 years now. When i met my husband he was so full of life, always on the go, which contributed to him being in great shape!! He was also amazingly wonderful to me!!(of course i fell madly in love with him!) We were so happy.. After we got married it slowly went down hill. He spent every waking hour on the computer (and still does.. Ever Quest) We had a child 2years after we got married.. Now we are at the point where we don't do anything.. He doesnt ever want to be active.. He just sits and plays EQ. He barely speeks to me, i usually have to ask him several times before he answers.. i dont know what to do, its been like this for a couple years now.. and when i try to talk to him about our relationship he gets mad.. He has let himself go and i dont feel all that attracted to him anymore :( i feel so bad for feeling like this but i cant help it, i fell in love with an active , full of life man and now have an out of shape bump on the log, who barely talks to me.. Help i dont know what to do.. I just want us to be happy again and healthy! I want what we had back.. and i dont know how to do that.. Tweet